Threesomes Good Or Bad

Do Threesomes Help Relationships

Well that question really depends on your relationship in the first place if either you or your partner are the jealous type a threesome could ruin your relationship or if one of you gets deeper feelings for the third person again this could be bad. Most couples who partake in threesomes are deeply in love with each other and regard sex with a third person as nothing more than fun. Whilst other people would consider sex with a third person as cheating but only you will know if a threesome is right or wrong for you and only you can make the decision to go ahead with one.

Good Call

If you have any doubts at all about bringing in a third person into your sex lives I would strongly urge you not to bother as it’s quite clear you are not ready to take that step just yet. Now to be honest with you I had fantasies about sleeping with two women way before I met and married my wife and I continued to have these fantasies throughout my married life. I personally would never have asked the wife if she fancied a threesome because I really wouldn’t have known how she would have reacted and the last thing I ever want to do is upset her because I love her so much.

Crazy To Say No

So when she actually asked me if I fancied having a threesome with her and another women it was like Christmas and all my birthdays had come at once. I mean come on what guy would turn this down what guy doesn’t fantasize about have a threesome with two women. So I would have been crazy to say no, but I will tell you that we did sit down and have a serious conversation about it before anything ever happened. We had to make sure it was what we both wanted and that neither of us were feeling pressured into doing it.

As it happens my wife admitted to having dreams about sleeping with me and another woman for a while and she wanted to put her dreams into practice and that’s exactly what we did. Now having sex with my wife is fantastic and I really believe she feels the same way about me, but until you have had a threesome and watched your wife make love to another woman whilst you were getting a blow job from this same woman at the same time you will never understand how horny and erotic this situation can be.

It’s Addictive

FFM

It’s like a drug you just want more and more it’s the best sexual experience I have ever had in my entire life and I’m never going to give it up. I’ll still be sleeping with two women at the same time when I’m in my sixties and seventies if I have my way. So for me and the wife threesomes have become a natural way of life for us and it really does help with our relationship. We are more open with each other and I would like to think that neither of us lies to each other. Our sex life is at its peak and we love it, we no longer need to add to it or spice it up in any way because it’s fantastic the way it is.

So do threesome’s help relationships yes they do and no they don’t, they have improved ours to the point where we couldn’t be any happier with each other. But that’s us it’s not you, you could have a totally different experience to having a threesome or a foursome yours could end in disaster. So at the end of the day the only way you’re going to find out is to try one out and if it wrecks your relationship it just means you were not right for each other in the first place.

Sex With Three People

Why Threesomes

Why are threesomes with two women the fantasy of most men, well let’s face it what red blooded man wouldn’t want to sleep with two women at the same time. It’s a natural thought to have if you’re a man and also these days more and more women are admitting to having these fantasies as well. So when my wife told me she fancied a threesome a couple of years ago I was quite shocked and immediately told her there’s no way on this earth that I’m letting another guy sleep with her and expect me to join in as well. But then she called me stupid and said she meant with another woman.

Threesome

Wow was I dreaming did she really just say that the wife wants threesome, well no I wasn’t dreaming and yes she really just said that. So after I got over the initial shock I immediately said OK sounds good to me who when and where. Well as it happens she’s been having fantasies about sleeping with another woman and me at the same time for a good few months but never mentioned it before because she thought it would never happen. So I asked her if she was bi curious and she said not really but a threesome just appealed to her and she thought it would be fun to try it out.

Good Friends

So I asked her why now and she told me a friend of hers recently told her she fancied sleeping with her, and so she told her friend she would only consider that if I was involved as well and her friend said OK which was fantastic news for me because her friend is fucking hot. Anyway we all met up for drinks at a local bar a couple of nights later to discuss it a bit further and after about six or seven drinks we thought fuck it lets go back to our place and get this threesome going. And that’s exactly what happened and what a fucking night it was.

I must admit I was exhausted after about an hour of keeping two women happy but the great thing about a threesome is when one gets tired they can relax and let the other two carry on. And to see my wife making love to another woman was the horniest thing I have ever seen in my life. I couldn’t get enough of it, the sex went on half way through the night, I’ve not managed to stay erect this long since I was in my teens. I don’t know what it was but I was immediately hooked and wanted to have threesomes every night.

How To Find a Threesome Partner

But as it turns out my wife’s friend only wanted to try it once, although she has had a threesome on four more occasions with us since that night. My wife was also hooked, she said it was one of the best sexual experiences she has ever had and wanted to do it again and again. So who am I to argue with her and we both sat down one night and tried to think of other friends of hers who would be willing to give a threesome ago. As it turns out most of her friends are married or seeing someone so we had no luck there.

Have An Affair

So we started hitting the clubs in the hope of finding a nice woman who may be interested in a threesome with us, again no luck there so we went online and searched for threesome sites and came across adult dating personals basically dating sites for people who just want to meet up for sex. So we joined a handful of these and hoped for the best, as it happens it was the best decision we made. That very night after joining the first one we ended up chatting to a woman who lived less than twenty miles away from us.

And a couple of nights later we met up with her for sex, and since joining these dating sites we now have found over forty women who we meet up with to have threesomes together on a regular basis and still meet quite a few new people as well. So if your wife says she fancies a threesome and you don’t know where to find someone to oblige you, try out the adult dating scene and you should be getting lucky in no time at all.